Rant Away

[Hannah]

Thanks, guys. I'm feeling better, now, still a bit sore, but, that's it.

And:

@ Leah-- That was... ironic. I'm sorry, though, that really sucks.

@aj- *hugs* I don't have a boyfriend and never have, so I can't say that I have any advice or anything like that. But that does suck, and, I'm sorry.

[Peeta the Frosting Prince]

Good! Glad to hear it.

And yeah...it was. We only see each once a month (if we're lucky) so it was like, "Really? D8"

[Aanaleigh]

Vivid, Leah, Emma, and Hannah: Thanks for your answers. They made me feel a bit better.

My rant for today(kinda dumb): I saved money all week long, because I wanted to get my belly button pierced. I have for years now, and partly because I wanted to kinda say to my mum "hah, I can do whatever I want now, and you can't stop me" but because I just wanted it.
So sure, clamp pinches a bit, no pain though, then needle jabbed through my skin, doesn't hurt as much as piercing my own ears. Removing the needle hurt a bit more, same with putting in the ring and putting the ball on.
The worst pain of it all. Hugs from friends. Everyone insists giving me bear hugs, and they weren't trying to hurt me, but gah, that freaking hurt. ><
I swear, I'm never getting another piercing in my life.

[Peeta the Frosting Prince]

-hug-

My sister got hers done, and her friends did the same thing. Assholes. She passed out when she got it done.

[Aanaleigh]

*hugs back*

Ugh, I feel for your sister. My friends still haven't given up yet. Just today one gave me another bearhug, and hit my stomach and made it bleed.

[Purple Embers]

Ouch, one of my friends who had hers done had a friend who kept touching it.

Thus, it got infected and had to be removed.

My rant for the day is quite stupid and immature of me, but I don't know where else to rant at.

A girl at school keeps on flirting with my boyfriend. Grabbing his hands and tackling him onto the ground and not getting off him because "she hurt her knee."

-Insert appropriate level of sarcasm-

It's weird that she's hurt her knee so many times but still manages to be fully capable of doing it over and over again. How strange.

And then she sat on his lap, right in front of me.

-Screams and rips hair out-

Well, I think I'm okay now. Sorry you had to hear that.

[megasaurus]

@purple Embers -- Sorry that you have a...female dog like that doing stuff to annoy you. Something like that happened with one of my previous boyfriends and a good punch does the trick, but if she's stronger than you then teling her to stop and having your boyfriend say he doesn't like it should stop her. And if that fails you could tell a guidance counseler about how she's making you

emotionally unstable and insecure

since she's going after your boyfriend

[Purple Embers]

Thanks Megasuarus, I think I will talk to him about it. Thank you for the advice though, my hands are more built for typing then punching though.

[Peeta the Frosting Prince]

I think you should talk to her, too. Like there was this girl who kept messing with Rane that way (it was on Skype). Like, someone came into the LFTO Bar and asked, "Wait, which one of you is Leah?" because I had mentioned Rane, and she jumps up and goes, "Oh, I'm Leah! Wait, sorry, that was a Freudian slip." or doing stupid stuff to single him out to the point where not only was I noticing it, but other people were too.

He was as well and it was kind of freaking him out a little so he started avoiding her.

But anyway.

I went and I talked to her and said it was making myself as well as some others uncomfortable, so she started backpedaling right away and hasn't been like that since.

[Purple Embers]

I just don't understand why someone would do something like that... but, oh well. I'm glad she stopped doing that to him though.

I talked to him today and he told me that he was going to talk to her about it, so I will just have to see how that goes. Hopefully it goes well. But if it doesn't I will talk to her and tell her to maybe stand off a little bit.

[vividlyvisceral]

I had a girl who used to like my boyfriend, but the moment we started going out she turned her nose up at him and said that she never liked him in the first place. It was as if she was trying to say that the moment I touch a guy he turns to trash.

However we've been dating for two years now, so I'm going to say he's the furthest thing from trash there is.

I hope everything goes alright Embers!

[Purple Embers]

Thanks Viv, there's just some girls out there that are a bit... meanie.

I spoke to Carlo (my boyfriend) and he told me he spoke to her, he said to her that could she please maybe not be so... touch-a touch-a with him and she told him that she really liked him and that he should go out with her. And he said to her that he wouldn't because he already had a girlfriend, then she went off all pissed off.

So it went... okay.

[vividlyvisceral]

Oh God. I would've raged so hard if a girl asked my boyfriend to go out with her! What a horrible girl you have there. I don't want to lump all people who do that together by saying they're horrible people, but it's just common courtesy not to go after someone in a relationship.

Sorry, I'm a bit sore about that topic because I was cheated on myself, and it was the worst feeling in the world. I thought there was something wrong with me for him to go off in want of another girl- like I was damaged goods or just plain not good enough. The girl in question was in the grade below me as well, and used to smirk at me whenever we crossed paths. Sort of rubbing salt into the wound really... having this younger girl parade about calling me a loser and a slut and all these other things...

-gloom settles in-

It was a really hard time for me... now I know there are some instances where people are in abusive relationships and they might find happiness in the arms of someone else- but the right thing to do is always to break up with the person you're not happy with, not two-time on them...

-sigh- But... I once did something stupid too... that same guy, after we broke up he went out with the girl he cheated on me with... but a bit later he flirted with me in person and part of me decided "I'm going to fuck this girl over like she did me-" and I made him cheat on her with me.

...yeah...

I've never been able to get rid of that shame of becoming the kind of person I hated. He dumped her to go out with me- but I didn't want to go out with him again and he raged at me for leading him on, and she was mortified for having the tables turned and dropped out of school. Her friends used to look at me with a murderous contempt.

-now I'd never do that sort of thing again. I am the kind of person who actively seeks revenge, but I should've set a limit. I've had friends who have had relationships with guys who have girlfriends- and I've told them off only for them to snarl "YOU did it!"

Just let me clear the air now by saying I'm no longer that girl, and I hope you guys don't think less of me for what I did then... it's been a long time forgiving myself.

[Purple Embers]

It's okay Viv, none of us will judge you here. Revenge is hard to look in the face and say no to when it's just... well there. Even though it probably wasn't the nicest thing to do, this girl cheated with your boyfriend, you are bound to be angry and I probably (shamefully) admit that I and a lot of other people would do the same thing you did.

Yeah I'm a bit sensitive with this whole thing because the boy I am going out with used to love my best friend. But well it's a very long story and ended not good at all for him. When he asked me out I was very confused and thought that he was just settling for me instead of my friend. We went through a real rough patch where I found it really hard to trust that he did love me, because I had drilled it into my mind that he was in love with my friend. But for around the past year we had been going great and now... this happened and is stirring up old feelings.

But I'll just have to confront her and talk to her.

[liveyourlifeloud]

Hi everyone I'm not sure if you all remember me becasue I haven't been on in a month. My father was in the hospital things werent good but they are now. Sorry I just missied this site and decided I would come back. If you dont remember you can all call me Liz